A B Select
the one that describes the way you tend to be in your relationships:
In your
relationship: A) You assume your partner knows you love them without
having to say it B) it is important to say “I love you?”
In
your relationship: A) you feel it easy and necessary to express
your feelings, B) you sometimes have a hard time expressing your
feelings?
When making
decisions I: A) let my heart lead the way, B)
try to choose the logical answer?
When communicating with my partner it is more important:
A) to be clear and concise and get to the point, B) to take
my time in explaining things so they will understand me ?
If there is a chance I might hurt my
partner's feelings
by telling the truth, I will A) keep it to myself or say it in a
nicer way that won’t hurt them. B) say it like it is ?
When my partner gives me a birthday card, I like
one that is: A) creative and imaginative B) sweet and romantic ?
When I do things with my partner I prefer to: A)
have things planned out, B) be spontaneous ?
When my partner and I go on a vacation I would like
to: A) wait until we get there and then decide what to do, B) have
a plan in mind about our activities ?
In my relationship it is more important that: A)
we have a strong sense of what is right
and wrong, B) we have fun and excitement. ?
When
my partner and I go out to a function I: A) don’t worry too much
if we are late B) need to be on time ?
When seeking a partner it was more important A)
to see if they are trustworthy and honest, B) see if we have common
interests to share in ?
In
my relationship it is more important for me to: A) be charming
and impulsive, B) loyal, prepared and dependable ?
When choosing a spouse I believe it is more important
to choose A) someone who will make me think, B) someone who is fun
to be around ?
When
it comes to discussing important issues with my partner I like
to think that I am quite: ?
When putting together something mechanical for
my spouse I: A) am curious to know how it works B) could care less how
it works, just as long as it does ?
When trying to fix a problem in my relationship
I would probably: A) just try and fix it by trial and error, B)
buy a book and read up on the topic ?
In a new relationship I would be more likely to:
A) take some time and evaluate the person, B) jump right in and
have fun ?
When I communicate with my spouse I tend to act
more: A) informal and playful
B) formal and instructive ?
I would prefer that the person I choose to spend
the rest of my life with would be: A) a sensible spouse, B) a clever
and smart companion ?
In
my relationships it is important for me to: A) be seen as calm,
cool and collected, B) faithful, stable and organized ?
When it comes to problems in relationships, I like
to look for: A) solutions that we have used before successfully,
B) new ways to resolve our issues ?
When thinking about my relationship I often think
about: A) what we will do in the future or B) what we are doing
in the present ?
When it comes to special times such as holidays
I: A) like to plan parties and events around those occasions, B)
don’t really care if we do that much ?
When my partner wants me to do something I appreciate
A) them thinking about it before they ask me, B) them being clear
and specific ?
In my relationship
I prefer to be valued for my: A) contributions and uniqueness or
B) energy and excitement?
When I get into an argument with my spouse, it
is more important to A) confront the issues at hand or B) make things
right ?
When making
a big purchase like buying a car I tend to base my decision on A) my feelings
and trust of the seller B) the appearance and cool options.
In my relationship I value: A) finding ways to
energizing my relationship or B) integrity and unity more ?
If I had my choice of an activity to do with my
partner I would choose A) a nice
walk in nature B) white water rafting ?
If my partner was in a bad mood, I would try to
make them feel better by: A) taking them out for a fun evening or
B) talking to them about what’s wrong ?
When my partner and I go over to a close friends
place I am more likely to greet them with a A)
verbal greeting or handshake or, B) hug. ?
In my relationship I demonstrate love by: A) being
affectionate and romantic, or B) the practical things I do for my
loved ones ?
In my relationship it is more important for me
to: A) strive for a sense of security and trust or, B) have frequent
and deep conversations ?
In my relationship it is more important for me
to be: A) motivating and encouraging, or B) helpful and trustworthy ?
In my romantic relationship I looked for a A)
a dependable mate or B) a soul mate ?
In my romantic relationship it is more important
to A) make my partner happy, or B) be safe and secure ?
