Relationship Personality Profile

Why is my partner driving me crazy?

Most couples eventually find out they are in a multicultural relationship, meaning my “partner is different than me in more ways than I thought.” This is because the personality styles people grow up with begin to stabilize over time and become ingrained in how they act.   Sometimes this begins to be misunderstood and this is especially true when we are with the people we love and value. Please answer the following questions the way you are most of the time, not who you would like to be.

This is not about changing who you are, it is about understanding who you are and how to capitalize on your attributes.

Select the response that best describes the way you tend to be in your relationships:
1. In your relationship:
2. In your relationship:
3. When making decisions,
4. When communicating with my partner it is more important:
5. If there is a chance I might hurt my partner’s feelings by telling the truth, I will
6. When my partner gives me a birthday card, I like one that is:
7. When I do things with my partner I prefer to:
8. When my partner and I go on a vacation I would like to:
9. In my relationship it is more important that:
10. When my partner and I go out to a function,
11. When seeking a partner it was more important
12. In my relationship it is more important for me to be:
13. When choosing a spouse I believe it is more important to choose
14. When it comes to discussing important issues with my partner I like to think that I am quite:
15. When putting together something mechanical for my spouse,
16. When trying to fix a problem in my relationship I would probably:
17. In a new relationship I would be more likely to:
18. When I communicate with my spouse I tend to act:
19. I would prefer that the person I choose to spend the rest of my life with would be:
20. In my relationships it is important for me to:
21. When it comes to problems in relationships, I like to look for:
22. When thinking about my relationship I often think about:
23. When it comes to special times such as holidays,
24. When my partner wants me to do something I appreciate
25. In my relationship, I prefer to be valued for:
26. When I get into an argument with my spouse, it is more important to
27. When making a big purchase like buying a car I tend to base my decision on
28. In my relationship, I value:
29. If I had my choice of an activity to do with my partner I would choose
30. If my partner was in a bad mood, I would try to make them feel better by:
31. When my partner and I go over to a close friends place I am more likely to greet them with
32. In my relationship, I demonstrate love by
33. In my relationship it is more important for me to:
34. In my relationship it is more important for me to be:
35. In my romantic relationship, I looked for
36. In my romantic relationship it is more important

Assessment developed by Lawrence Stoyanowski, M.Sc. All Rights Reserved.

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