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UPCOMING WORKSHOPS... New Dates!

  • Nov 8-9, 2008 @ Cascades Convention Center, Langley, BC.

  • Limited space available! 

 



This workshop is designed to strengthen your marriage or relationship. If you have a strong relationship, this workshop will provide you with the insights and tools to make it a great one. If your relationship is distressed, then this two day workshop will provide a road map for repair.



At the workshop couples will learn how to:

  • Foster respect, affection, and closeness

  • Build and share a deeper connection with each other’s inner world

  • Keep conflict discussions calm

  • Break through and resolve conflict grid-lock

  • Strengthen and maintain the gains in your relationship

The Gottman’s research has taught us what really makes marriages work by studying and following over 3000 couples in three decades of research. This workshop is to teach you exactly what successful couples do to foster romance and harmony in their marriages.

During the first day, you will learn how to build fondness, admiration, and closeness in your relationship. On the second day, you’ll work on conflict management while learning new and important communication skills. In this workshop, there will be many humorous stories and role plays. Couples work privately on exercises designed to address the challenges in their real-life relationship. Gottman Therapists are available to support couples one-on-one with exercises. There is no group work or public disclosure

Dates: Nov 8, 9, 2008

Location: Cascades Convention Center, 
20393 Fraser Hwy. Langley, BC

Times: Sat – 8:30am – 5:00pm (registration 8:00am)
Sun8:30 am – 5.00pm

Cost: Early Reg.-$525.00 Inc.GST by Oct 23rd Standard Reg. $600 Inc. GST (Per Couple) 

Cancellation Policy: If cancellation is made on or before the EARLY REGISTRATION CUT OFF DATE, a full refund minus a $50.00 processing fee will be given. After the cut-off date, your registration will be converted to a credit, good for a full year that you can use to attend future workshops.

The Five Basic Questions

  • How is your marriage/relationship doing?

  • What makes relationships change, for better or for worse?

  • If your marriage is in trouble, how can you turn it around?

  • If your marriage is doing well, how can you ensure that your relationship will continue to grow?

  • As your relationship improves, how can you make changes last?

Assessing Your Marriage

  • Learn to recognize the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse and what to do if they are attacking your marriage.

  • Identify your relationship’s specific strengths and how to build on these.

  • Learn about the effects of physiological flooding and how it may affect conflict resolution

  • Learn small easy steps that increase romance in your relationship

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Building A Solid Marital House

  • Learn how Love Maps provide a solid foundation for your marital intimacy

  • Use the Fondness & Admiration System to renew respect and care for one another

  • Create an Emotional Bank Account that you can draw upon in times of stress

  • Develop your problem-solving skills, including the four techniques of effective conflict resolution: Softened Start-Up, Accepting Influence, Repair Work and De-escalation

  • Find out how you can make your dreams and aspirations come true for you, your partner, and your relationship

Workshop Presenter’s Darren Wilk M.A. RCC and Lawrence Stoyanowski MSC, RCC come with a wealth of insight with over 25 years of combined experience working with couples and families. They both are Certified Gottman Therapists and are the first to deliver the Art and Science of Love workshop outside of the United States . Their counseling practice, Lighthouse Therapeutic Services, is designed around the Motto –“make your marriage great without changing your mate”. They both have a passion for couples therapy and developed a number of innovative tools and assessments for relationships that can be found on their popular web site www.bestmarriages.com Their presentations are humorous and inspiring and have been enjoyed by 100’s of couples over the years, who keep coming back for more “nuts and bolts” information to enhance or repair their relationships. The weekend will be filled with role plays modeling the tools used, lectures, and plenty of opportunities for couples to get closer and deepen their relationship.

Darren and Lawrence received their certification at the Gottman Institute and were both personally trained by Drs. John & Julie Gottman. The Gottman Institute is dedicated to building vital bridges of trust and understanding in couple’s relationships. The institute was co-founded by Drs. John & Julie Gottman in Seattle , Washington . The Gottman model is based upon Dr. John Gottman’s 35 years of research with over 3000 couples. John Gottman is an emeritus Professor of Psychology at the University of Washington and founded what the media termed “The Love Lab”, where much of his research on couples’ interactions was conducted. His breakthrough research on marriages has earned him numerous national and international awards and culminated in 38 books, including: The Relationship Cure; his New York Times best-seller, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work; Why Marriages Succeed or Fail… and How You Can Make Yours Last; and Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child: The Heart Of Parenting. John has appeared on numerous TV programs, including: “Oprah: “Good Morning America ”, “20-20”, “Prime Time”, and “CBS Morning News”. Articles about him have appeared in The New York Times, Newsweek, USA Today, Psychology Today, Family Circle, Ladies Home Journal, Redbook, Glamour, Woman’s Day, People, Men’s Health, Self, Readers’ Digest, The Seattle Times, and Seattle P-I.

Registration Date: Nov 8-9, 2008         Early Registration Closes: Thursday, October 23, 2008

Fees per couple: Early Registration $525.00 Includes GST      Standard Registration $600 Includes GST

Do not send cash. Make cheque payable to: Lighthouse Therapeutic Services. 

Pay by VISA, Mastercard or Cheque. Once registered your payment will be processed within 2 business days. 

Register by Phone: 604-539-5277

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